It's November and the holidays are already coming at you FAST. The guest room has turned into a storage room. The fridge is packed and the turkey hasn't even come home yet. And all of it gets done at 10 at night, after work and dinner and homework. By the time the first guest rings the bell, you're wiped out, and you're wondering how everyone else seems to pull this off. I spend my days in other people's homes, so I've seen this moment more times than I can count. What I've l